The uterine Fibroid Creator
Last Updated: 09-15-2024
Your body isn’t out to hurt you. It is an intelligence system that wants nothing but the best for you no matter how you treat it. Give your body a little bit more credit than it being a broken down machine. I believe that illness is a feedback mechanism that lets us know when something is emotionally bothering us under the surface; that we may or may not be conscious of. Are there physical factors involved in illness? YES! Can studies and evidence-based medicine be the only pieces of the puzzle that matter? I don’t believe this to be true. Gather as much information as you can physically, emotionally and spiritually before making any decisions involving your body. Be your best advocate.
With Love, Rachel Reimer
What Are uterine fibroids?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gtQ17VEnszw
An Illustration of thE uterine fibroid Creator
The Uterine Fibroid Creator belief: “My home is broken.”
A six year old little girl brings home a piece of artwork from school and runs to go show her mom. The mom acknowledges, the piece of artwork and tells her how good it looks but there is no warmth, feelings of love or enthusiasm. This pattern continued throughout childhood and adolescence. Mom was physically present, acknowledged what happened in the moment yet was not able to connect with the child emotionally. Over the years, mom had an overgiving/codependent nature towards the men in her life and got little in return. Since mom overgave to feel like she could physically/emotionally survive and got very little back, she wasn’t able to lay the groundwork to the hearth of the family fireplace.
Therapeutic Considerations
The word “creator” is used very intentionally. If an individual can live out the illustration of the Uterine Fibroid Creator over and over again, it is CREATED. Here are questions that I encourage you to journal about and/or discuss with your counselor.
*Do not sit and think about these questions. Get the thoughts out of your body through writing or speech. A true, unbiased, analysis of oneself can not happen within just the contents of one’s own mind.
What specific memories appear where you wanted warmth from your mother figure and she felt stone cold instead?
What specific memories appear where you were very proud of something that you did and/or accomplished and your mother figure showed little to no enthusiasm?
What was the specific event that “broke” the home?
What fires have gotten out of control in your life, as an adult, as a result of you not knowing how to nurture yourself?
Is the emotional/irrational part of you WILLING to repair the relationship with your mother figure? (If conversations with your mother figure are not possible, are you WILLING to come up with a plan to release your resentments towards her with a therapist and/or with Mary, mother of Jesus?
Did your mother figure fail to protect you against criticism, judgements, rage and other chaos in your life? If you switched lives with her, do you think you could have protected you against criticism, judgments, rage and other chaos? In each specific memory that has shown up with this topic thus far, switch places with your mother and see how you react to the chaotic flame.
When was your mother figure’s hearth destroyed? Did she willingly and knowingly destroy it?
The belief “My home IS broken.” is in present tense. Even though your mother figure did not offer warmth, feelings of love or enthusiams, as an adult, why is your home broken today? Why do you want/need it broken today? If you aquired a whole, unbroken, house would the fear of it breaking be worse than accepting a house that is already broken?
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*The content on this post is based off of opinion and/or observation and is for entertainment purposes only.